I used to believe in permanence. I used to believe in love that lasts forever and that the defining moment was the marriage ceremony. That was it. Marriage: the moment that sealed the deal. The moment that said we are stuck together for life no matter what happened. I was under the delusion that things …
Boundaries, Boundaries, Boundaries
One of the biggest lessons I've been learning about post divorce is the lesson on boundaries. I guess I've still got lots to learn because the Universe keeps presenting me with opportunities to enforce them over and over again. First off, let me preface this article by acknowledging that previous to my divorce, I had …
Divorce and Christianity
Yesterday, a friend approached me with a dilemma that one of her friends is having: she is in a marriage where her husband is an alcoholic and abuses her emotionally, mentally, and financially. He has rage issues and will yell at her and accuse her of things she never did (cheat on him) and call …